Remember the holidays when you were little? Lots of hugs, kisses and breath taking squeezes from relatives, not to mention that one aunt who always wore bright red lipstick and left an impression on your cheek for all to see. Navigating the holidays with small children can be difficult, especially when they appear shy or snub the advances of loved ones. Sue Shellenbarger for the Wall Street Journal offers a variety of ways to help both your children and the relatives connect and enjoy their time together.