The statistics show that many more older men are married than older women. Although there is the fact of womens vs. mens longevity, but Paula Span for the New York Times felt this could not be the only reason. What she found was that women, both widowed and divorced were better able to navigate the single life. With already supportive groups of friends, events, book clubs and volunteer jobs, women’s networks helped them blossom. Read more about her fascinating and somewhat familiar findings here, The Gray Gender Gap: Older Women Are Likelier to Go It Alone.